I'm going to post this, even thought it's not finished and I'm still not sure of all the facts. But I need to post.
It was a dreary day in 1871 when Anne Gilbert Snyder Munger accompanied her husband, Henry Elias Munger, to the railroad station in Alton, Illinois. After a tumultuous six years of marriage, Henry left her and her three children, and fled to Texas. It was the last time she would ever see him, another casualty of the War Between the States. Anne was a devout Catholic, so divorce was out of the question.
Munger graduated from Union College in Schenectady, New York as a sergeant, 1st lt., Company A. in 1861, He returned home two years later with the 18th New York Infantry as a company commander, and acting adjutant.
As a civilian after the war, Munger went to work for the commissary department in Illinois. On November13, 1865, he married Anne Gilbert Snyder. Henry and Anne had three children ⏤ their eldest a daughter, Anne Lucy, followed by two sons, Henry and Carlton. Henry Elias moved his family numerous times in search of railway jobs, which he quickly lost due to his drinking.
While living in Hannibal, Anne could take no more of his drinking, took the children and left him. That day at the train station, he was so drunk, she was nearly paralyzed with fear that he would collapse on a train track and be run over. But she watched him totter onto a train headed for Texas. Finally, she turned around and without looking back, returned home to collect her things and moved with her daughter, Anne Lucy, to be closer to family.
After Henry Elias’ departure, his brothers, William and Lyman took the boys in, cared for them and educated them. Anne and her daughter then moved to Alton, Illinois in order for her to be closer to her family. One of her boys, Henry Snyder, lived with Lyman and Carlton lived with William. She never saw Henry again.
Around 1885 while on a round trip cruise from St. Louis, Anne Lucy met Anchor Steam Lines purser, William Howard Pritchartt. Pritchartt had fallen in love with the City of Natchez, Mississippi, and bought two lots on the tall bluff overlooking the Mississippi River, married Anne Lucy, built a home and raised a family there. Around 1910, Anne Snyder Munger moved to Natchez to live with her daughter and their family.
To be fair, Munger probably suffered from PTSD. The Civil War was anything but civil, and he'd been in skirmishes and seen things that no one should have to see. He started out as a fresh-faced young man with fair skin and an open, friendly, handsome face.
According to a passage from The18th New York Infantry in the Civil War: A History and a Roster by Ryan A. Conklin, McFarland & Co., Inc., Publishers, 2016, Munger landed in Texas and became a vagabond, wandering all over the state looking for work. He continued to drink and was described by saloon regulars as "ugly and quarrelsome" when drunk. His last known whereabouts was in Beaumont, TX in 1901, where he failed to pick up his last pension check. It was assumed that he had died, but how is not known. His grave can be found in Lufkin, Texas in a pauper's cemetery called Strangers' Rest Cemetery where a small stone plaque displays the names of known burials from early records. On that plaque one can find the name, Harry E. Munger.
It took many years of going to the Congressional Library to find when he had died before she was finally able to get her "widder's mite," veterans' benefits for the widows of those who'd served.
For pictures of and stories about the house on the bluff, see https://shantybellum.blogspot.com/2011/09/long-farewell.html
Upon arriving in Natchez, Anne had two or three possessions that were valuable. She was a personal friend of Abraham Lincoln, and, as such, had received a handwritten invitation to his inauguration. Lincoln was one of those rare people, especially in such early days, to be a celebrity in his own time, and anything signed or written by him was worth its weight in gold. Lincoln had written to her to personally invite her to his inauguration, which she dutifully kept, but later lost. She was known as a terrible housekeeper and may have simply thrown it away accidentally. We looked in places she might've hidden the invitation to prevent theft, and upon taking the back off of the following photo, was excited to see a partial address on Pennsylvania Avenue. It did not turn out to be the lost invitation; however, we discovered it is an original Matthew Brady photo, whose studio was on Pennsylvania Avenue.
She had her husband's Civil-War journal and a large book of paintings of American Indians, which she later sold.
She also had in her possession her brother's (Joseph Baker) naval commission, which he received in 1861, after having enlisted without his father's knowledge or permission.
He was appointed in June, 1861, as lieutenant in the Marine Corps. The commission, which is still extant, was signed by Gideon Welles, Secretary of the Navy and Abraham Lincoln, President of the United States.
He commanded the marine detachment that served the quarterdeck pivot gun on board the U.S.S. Congress during the historic battle at Hampton Roads in March, 1862. The Confederates had seized the Union's ironclad, Merrimac, and sank the wooden Union ships Congress and Cumberland, making wooden fighting ships forever obsolete. He escaped the sinking Congress, however, and was described by a correspondent for the New York Herald thusly:
"This young officer was twenty-one years of age on the evening before the battle, and is said to have conducted himself with unusual bravery and coolness."
Baker had also fought in the first battle of Bull Run, in which he was badly wounded and carried off the battlefield by his brother, John Pope Baker, who was a Cavalry officer. He served through the war and rose to the rank of captain. He was found dead in his quarters at the Marine Barracks, Boston Naval Yard, October 2, 1876, from the effects of Yellow Fever contracted during the war.
